Living Single & Dating Nightmares

EMBRACING SINGLENESS I’ve been single for a while now. I used to feel bad about how many years but as I’ve matured, I’m like Why Was I Ever?! In your singleness your able to really grow and learn about yourself without commentary or bias from someone that isn’t even your husband. Just imagine , all these…

What 25 and 2017 Taught Me : Bloom Where Planted !

WHAT BLOOM WHERE PLANTED MEANS   Happy New Year!!! & on this day , January 15th , I was born! January starts off a new year and new age for me and let me tell you , its been a competition. The New Year is praised by everyone while a New Age comes with “Your…

Love & other Drugs

  Love is a hell of a drug or so I’ve heard.  I’ve never been in love, so I don’t understand the feeling but I have an idea. Last year I made a promise to myself, a sort of commitment until commitment from that special someone (whoever you are!?). To all my singles out there,…

How 2015 Prepared Me For 2016

HAPPY NEW YEAR! HAPPY NEW YOU ! WELCOME TO 2016!  We’re 10 days in! 2015 was comprised of 4 moments that changed my outlook & tested me. 1. JUNE 2014-MAY 2015 – Felt stuck/boxed in my first job after graduation. Saw myself bringing work home with me and feeling miserable in every aspect. Had many…

The Beauty of Networking

You know I love a good event , good opportunity , and good company!  Before social media … there was the cocktail party, gala, mixer, ball, premiere… And that was the only way to meet and mingle.   As of late I have been branching out and attending various networking opportunities. These events vary from…

Say I Do …… To You !

Hey Sunflowers!! … It’s been a month since my last post and it’s been far too long! This post is all about committing to yourself before you give yourself to someone else. I’m sharing 3 “gifts”, as I call them. Literally 2 were on my Facebook feed waiting for me at the perfect time and…

To Receive the Best. You Have to Be the Best.

…….I Have Declared I’m Taking Control of My Life. We can’t control others, change peoples thoughts or perceptions , or how they feel about us or anything. BUT.  We are in control of OUR feelings, attitudes, energy, who we allow to stay in our lives… Any & Everything involving YOU. I realized I was putting…

Sunflower 2 Sunflower : Interview with Jamie of jamierachelle.com

I’m excited to have my first feature on the blog & it’s someone that I connected with through her blog. A couple weeks I read Jamie’s post via a Facebook post which linked to her blog. After reading the post I posted on my Facebook the following (click the link below the picture to view her…

Stop Rushing , Stop Planning, & Start ____________________

[You fill in the blank!]…Relaxing, Finding balance, Doing something new, Exercising, Having Fun, Spending time with family & friends, Getting deeper into your Religion, Volunteering, Meditating, Reading, Learning, Loving yourself, Dating, Exploring … >>>>>> When’s the last time you did something for the first time? <<<<<< Recently I had a plan, which I’m sure God…